How do I get started?

The best way to get started is to fill out my Contact Form here on my website. From there, I will ask you for references from other Pro-Dommes you have booked with, your availability, and what our mutual interests are.

What will our first meeting look like?

Our first meeting will be in public with no play. This is a space for us to see if our interests align, ask questions without fear of interrupting a dynamic, and see if we are a good fit. You are welcome to pick a local restaurant, coffee shop, cafe, or another space where I can give you my undivided attention.

To book a first meeting, I require a $50 tribute plus the cost of the bill from our meeting. The tribute can be paid in cash or visa gift card at the beginning of our meeting presented in a birthday card (bonus points for humor) or via Venmo prior to our meeting @surrealexperiences.

What will the cost of services look like?

This will entirely depend upon what we are planning to build. We can look at your goals and budget together during our first meeting to determine the complexity and length of the session. Please see my Rates section for more detailed time rates. You should also take into consideration the cost of a private space (not your home), as I currently do not have a space to host.

Prior to the session, I require a 25% deposit to book my time.

A cancellation fee of $75 will be applied to any cancellation between booking and 24 hours prior to the session. Sessions cancelled within 24 hours will incur an additional fee of 25% of the total cost of the booking.

What counts as a “session” versus an “outing”?

An outing is any time spent outside in public. Outing activities can include attending a play or movie, shopping, dinner, grabbing a drink, playing tennis, you name it. Outings are $100 per hour plus the cost of the activities. This is a great way for us to get to know each other as real people. The only cost exception is a reduced price for First Meetings, which is $50 plus the cost of activity.

A session is any time spent alone together (or with the company of another provider). My time and focus will be entirely on you without any distractions from the outside world. How that time is spent is completely up to us!

Where will our sessions take place?

I have an In-Call Partnership with Elysium Dungeon Hideaway in New Jersey. They require an additional fee of $80 per hour to play in their space. If you would like to do an Out-Call instead, you would be responsible for booking a hotel or Airbnb for our session.

How should I behave toward you?

Respect and politeness go far with me. Outside of session, I do not brat tame or provide more than one correction. Failure to maintain a professional composure, uphold boundaries, and treat me with respect will result in denial of services.